This is the first of two new posts that examines the past year, our first year, of expat life in Bangalore, India. The second is on its way.
When Masan was a year old I started this tradition of giving her a photo book for her birthday each year of the best photos of the past year. That way we could all revisit the fun adventures she had over the past year. She even had a book of her baptism and her trip to Disney (grandma did this one). I continued the tradition when Evie came along, and was doing so well, right up until Evie was about 3. Poor Mia doesn’t even have one photo book. This unfinished project is something that bothers me a great deal, and I cringe when I think about it, yet every time I would go to work on them one of two things would happen. 1) I would become sidetracked by something more pressing, like making dinner, doing laundry, or sleeping or 2) I would be swept down the photo rabbit hole reliving every single good time we have had that I would’t be able to come up for air, let alone finish a book.
My big plan in India was to finally catch up on the photo books for all 3 kids. A year in and the photo books are right where they were when we arrived. However, thinking (stressing) about them as I do from time-to-time inspired me here in this blog. To show instead of tell. The opportunity that Bangalore has given us as a gateway to so much of this magical country and even the great, big, wide world, has been truly a gift. With the day-to-day frustrations and hardships that can get under the skin of any expat living abroad in any developing country, it’s key to take a step back and look at the big picture—what have I seen, learned, and become because of this country? Below are the pictures that captured well the great, big, wonderful adventure the last year has been for this Brooklyn mama and her family.
Marari Beach, Kerala. First trip out of Bangalore. The homestay was right on a secluded fishing beach. Who knew that the first trip would be one of the best?Mia in Kerala checking out the Indian Ocean.Masan at the neighborhood Ganesha celebration.These ladies are the neighborhood gardeners. They wear button-down shirts over colorful saris, and spend hours in the sun sweeping leaves and pulling up weeds. Mia and I used to bring them snacks and water, until they stopping coming. The story is that the builder of this community had not been paying them for 3 months.When asked why the youngest was not in school, the ladies told me that she was on school vacation, which wasn’t true. The kids of many laborers in Bangalore help their parents work rather than go to school for various reasons (it’s perceived as not safe, the families move around a lot, education may not be valued as much as work/income).Jaipur at the heritage hotel where we spend 5 days at. It’s appropriate that this shot is of Mia on the bathroom floor because this room is where I spent the entire trip. Will have to try Jaipur again.Naked Mia at a neighborhood vegetarian festival celebrating Kerala.A neighborhood celebration in Bangalore.Nandi Hills. No one is permitted in these tempting, structurally unsound houses.We are a spectacle even at the Taj Mahal.Selfies in Delhi.The Taj near sunset.Diwali celebration in the neighborhood.The ‘Make a Wish’ event at VR Mall where hundreds of kids were given the Christmas gifts of their choice.A happy recipient.Masan with neighbors Veer and Geet and the kids from Patel Hanuman Reddy School.Handing out homemade Christmas cookies.Christmas in Bangalore with 80 degree temps and our first ever artificial tree.New Year’s in Bekel, Kerala.Mia in a bucket. Bekel, Kerala.Goat crossing somewhere between Kerala and Coorg.Cats at home. Currently, we have 3 since 4 was just too many. Kittu now lives with our friend Vasanthi and her kids. There’s an orange stray kitten I have my eye on, but Dan says it’s the cat or him.‘I Will Go Out.’ Kids’ first protest for women’s rights in Bangalore. Same day at the Women’s March all over the world.A signer at the rally.Aguada Fort, Goa looking towards the Taj.Goa.A kiddo at the anaganwadi we were prevented from working with probably for political reasons.Brothers.Holi Festival in Bellandur.The workshop of anuLIFE.Ladies weaving.Community meeting at Ambedkar Nagar Anganwadi where Links for Education is helping out. The teachers of 6 local anaganwadis with Urvi and Shubadha, my partners, in the back.Anganwadi kids at the community meeting. None of the people in power who were supposed to be there showed up.
Such a special walk, dear one. You are very loved. I so understand the rabbit hole when I try to capture our pictures which is (again) high on my to do list. Pray I will start succeeding. Tons of love. Miss you.
Hi mom I just realized that some of my photos are in iPhoto and some in Photo, so I didn’t have any of my wonderful visitors-you and Andrée and her family. I’m going to add to this post when I get the photos straightened. Miss you!
Such a special walk, dear one. You are very loved. I so understand the rabbit hole when I try to capture our pictures which is (again) high on my to do list. Pray I will start succeeding. Tons of love. Miss you.
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Hi mom I just realized that some of my photos are in iPhoto and some in Photo, so I didn’t have any of my wonderful visitors-you and Andrée and her family. I’m going to add to this post when I get the photos straightened. Miss you!
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